Reconciliation Work Part 2: Reconciliation Soup
Reconciliation Work. A difficult working that many workers won’t perform for people. There are many issues with it… 1. the break up happened for a reason 2. Usually there’s only one partner wanting to get back together 3. the feeling is often a one way street 4. I could go on.
Okay, in looking up reconciliation work I came across a recipe for Reconciliation (i.e. “Reconciliation Soup”). Obviously it’s a non hoodoo food. BUT I like it and I like the idea. Make it and feed it to the person you wish to reconcile with. It requires that you *actually spend time* with the person you are trying to reconcile with. You must be nice, sincere, affable, forgiving, kind, loving. You must want to make amends. Really, nothing else works quite as well. 🙂 (for more suggestions on getting your ex back, click here which has a lot of articles advising on how to get your ex back)
Recipe for Reconciliation Soup
My suggestion is add some pinches of reconciliation herbs to the soup – like catnip, coriander, ginger. Pray over the soup for sincere reunion. Be nice. Be loving. Be friendly. Be the person they fell in love with in the beginning. Make this soup and feed it lovingly to the person you wish to reunite with.
The idea of feeding someone…it is so good on a number of levels. You must be committed to nourishing the person you love. The relationship is not all about you and what you want. You must be willing to sacrifice of yourself — your time, your emotion, your energy, your effort. Do not be all about yourself and how it is not your fault things went wrong. You must be willing to acknowledge your part in the devastation of the relationship. Be humble and not filled with righteousness or pride.
Do not seek their return just so no one else can have them or to ease your own loneliness. These are not good reasons to convince someone to come back. In these cases, seek some one new for yourself.
Pray this prayer for healing a romantic relationship….( it is just a suggestion )
I offer you this prayer, to help me with my current relationship situation. Please take away all the pain and hurt in my heart. Fill it with love, joy, patience, and understanding. Bless me and my partner, so that we may never surrender to whatever challenges that come our way. Fill our hearts with love for each other, and may you make each one of us realize each other’s worth. Please touch the heart of my partner,fill it with much love for me. Make our complicated relationship become uncomplicated. I seek for your mercy and blessing that you may allow us to spend the rest of our lives with each other. Please make this feeling mutual for both of us. Lead us not into temptations. Guide us wherever we go. Always put us in each other’s heart and mind. Thank you Lord for hearing my prayer. I love you. Amen.
(SOURCE OF PRAYER IS http://www.catholic.org/prayers/prayer.php?p=2997)
see also…. Reconciliation Work Part 1 and Reconciliation Work Part 3
How to Move from Forgiveness to Reconciliation
Reconciliation with an Ex…Is it a good idea?
Getting Back Together With an Ex Love? Do Second Chances and Reconciliations Ever Work?
Prayer for Forgiveness and Reconciliation (for families)
Win Your Boyfriend Back: 5 Simple and Stunning Steps to Getting Your Boyfriend Back Forever!