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Reconciliation Work Part 2: Reconciliation Soup

Reconciliation Work. A difficult working that many workers won’t perform for people. There are many issues with it… 1. the break up happened for a reason 2. Usually there’s only one partner wanting to get back together 3. the feeling is often a one way street 4. I could go on.

Okay, in looking up reconciliation work I came across a recipe for Reconciliation (i.e. “Reconciliation Soup”). Obviously it’s a non hoodoo food. BUT I like it and I like the idea. Make it and feed it to the person you wish to reconcile with. It requires that you *actually spend time* with the person you are trying to reconcile with. You must be nice, sincere, affable, forgiving, kind, loving. You must want to make amends. Really, nothing else works quite as well. ūüôā (for more suggestions on getting your ex back, click here which has a lot of articles advising on how to get your ex back)

Recipe for Reconciliation Soup
My suggestion is add some pinches of reconciliation herbs to the soup – like catnip, coriander, ginger. Pray over the soup for sincere reunion. Be nice. Be loving. Be friendly. Be the person they fell in love with in the beginning. Make this soup and feed it lovingly to the person you wish to reunite with.

The idea of feeding someone…it is so good on a number of levels. You must be committed to nourishing the person you love. The relationship is not all about¬† you and what you want.¬† You must be willing to sacrifice of yourself — your time, your emotion, your energy, your effort. Do not be all about yourself and how it is not your fault things went wrong.¬† You must be willing to acknowledge your part in the devastation of the relationship.¬† Be humble and not filled with righteousness or pride.

Do not seek their return just so no one else can have them or to ease  your own loneliness. These are not good reasons to convince someone to come back.  In these cases, seek some one new for yourself.

Pray this prayer for healing a romantic relationship….( it is just a suggestion )

Dear Lord,
I offer you this prayer, to help me with my current relationship situation. Please take away all the pain and hurt in my heart. Fill it with love, joy, patience, and understanding. Bless me and my partner, so that we may never surrender to whatever challenges that come our way. Fill our hearts with love for each other, and may you make each one of us realize each other’s worth. Please touch the heart of my partner,fill it with much love for me. Make our complicated relationship become uncomplicated. I seek for your mercy and blessing that you may allow us to spend the rest of our lives with each other. Please make this feeling mutual for both of us. Lead us not into temptations. Guide us wherever we go. Always put us in each other’s heart and mind. Thank you Lord for hearing my prayer. I love you. Amen.

(SOURCE OF PRAYER IS http://www.catholic.org/prayers/prayer.php?p=2997)

see also…. Reconciliation Work Part 1 and Reconciliation Work Part 3

Further Reading

How to Move from Forgiveness to Reconciliation

Reconciliation with an Ex…Is it a good idea?

Getting Back Together With an Ex Love? Do Second Chances and Reconciliations Ever Work?

Prayer for Forgiveness and Reconciliation (for families)

Win Your Boyfriend Back: 5 Simple and Stunning Steps to Getting Your Boyfriend Back Forever!

Reconciliation Work Part 1: The Right Way and the Wrong Way

Do you want to get your ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend back after a break up? Relationship experts assure us that the vast majority of the break ups can be rescued! If that is true, why do so many people fail to get their exes back? Perhaps they are making mistakes and doing something foolish

Well, there are probably a multitude of¬† possible reasons. Possibly, though, one of the main reasons is hopelessness. They simply lose all hope of getting back together with their ex-lover. They think it’s useless to try or the relationship itself is unworkable. Therefore, they decided not to do anything about it. Or they do all the wrong things, like text or call constantly, beg, act needy and so on.

So, is it really impossible to salvage a break up? Well, nothing is further than the truth.¬† Along with wise, common-sense relationship advice about repairing one’s relationship with an ex, use your own innate magical efforts to speed things along and help your efforts at reuniting with your ex! In my series of blog posts about reconciliation with your ex lover, I offer tips, helpful advice, divination, and a reconciliation spell. Reconciliation is a big topic for people, and so I bet I will have lots of posts about it in the future!

Although getting an ex lover back is not easy but it is not impossible either. What is important is that you do the right things and try to avoid doing the wrong things. In addition, use the power of hoodoo spell working to aid your efforts in getting your ex-lover back into your arms!

See Also

Reconciliation Work Part 2: Reconciliation Soup

Reconciliation Work Part 3: A Hoodoo Working for Reconciliation 

How to Get an Ex Back: 5 Essential Steps

Reconciliation Work Part 3: A Hoodoo Working for Reconciliation Work

If you want to get a lover to come back and everything you’ve done hasn’t worked…a hoodoo spell is what you need. There can be many different workings and tricks to get your ex back, some are easy and some are complicated. The majority of individuals are interested in doing this because they want to restore a previous relationship. I’ve heard that Reconciliation spells are the most often asked for spell, but I don’t know whether that is true or not. But some people say that love spells can bring a lover back.

As with any spell work, it’s important to do divination first.¬† That’s why I’ve put together a page devoted to tarot spreads on Getting your Ex back and Return to Me tarot spreads. Make sure you do a tarot reading first to find out everything you need to know about yourself, your ex, and the current situation before performing any spell work.¬† Here is the link to the page on Hoodoo-Conjure.com Return to Me Tarot Spread


Light 2 pink figural candles, one for you and one for your ex-lover. As you dress the candles with Reconciliation Oil, pray over the candles:

“Heavenly Father, creator of all men and women, hear my prayer.
Bring us to be of one heart and mind with each other,
and rebuild the bond of love between us.

Every day for seven days light the candle for seven minutes and move the figural candle that represents the one you want closer to the candle that represents you. On the seventh day, let the candles burn down all the way.

Repeat the spell as necessary until they have returned to you.

Credits: the prayer was written by Dan Jenkins (http://helpgettingbacktogether.com/get-ex-back.htm)

See also:

Reconciliation Work Part 1

Reconciliation Work Part 2

4 Super Simple Tips on How to Get Your Ex Back

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